Have you ever been in a situation that you felt like either way you go you are going to lose? I think we all have an honestly I had a friend ask me the same question the other day. He said if he made either decision, someone that he considered a friend was going to be upset with him.
He wanted to know my honest opinion, and my honest opinion was that I didn't know what to tell him. I have been in those situations many times and I still have no idea which way is the best way. I once heard it put like this. If you are going to lose either way it really doesn't matter what you chose to do, because you are going to any way you look at it.
Sometimes the best thing to do is listen to your heart and what God has to say about it. I know even reading the Bible and praying, the answer doesn't just always pop up. I think that God wants to let you have the freedom of choice on the matter and when you are going to lose anyway, that is just how you have to think.
Life can come up with some pretty strange circumstances that will create an internal conflict on both sides. If I do this consequence A will happen, but if I chose the other consequence B will happen. I honestly would be lying if I said I knew what the best road to take is, and in that case you just need to think, pray, and make the best decision you feel you can make.
If anyone has a good way to handle this type of situation please leave a comment below. I really would like to know what some of you would do when these types of things come up.
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