Thursday, March 27, 2014

Trust Is The Key To A Great Relationship

It is bound to happen in a relationship at one point or another. The person you care about most is going to lie to you about something. It doesn't meant its a big lie or that they are lying about anything serious, but it hurts just the same. You start second guessing everything they tell you, thinking that if they would lie about that, would they lie about this.

I have been there a few times in my life and I know the concern it can create, and I also know how it effects your trust for that person. Let me be real clear about something. If you don't have trust you have no real relationship. Relationships that last are build on a trust that you know that person will never do anything to hurt you.

Yes little white lies come up from time to time, but you should know how they can change things between you as a couple. Sometimes we lie to keep from hurting someones feelings, but you should never lie to the person you love. Maybe you tell them they look great even if they don't and that is not really what I mean. I mean telling them you didn't do something that you know you did, or telling them you were one place when you were really at another.

These things can severely limit how close you are to your significant other. If you feel you can't trust them, or they feel they can't trust you, your ability to grow closer and move forward slows down significantly. It is really hard to love someone when you think they aren't being honest with you. Love is is tricky thing and when you are playing with someones emotions honesty is going to be your best friend.

Always be honest with the person you love and try your best to earn one another's trust. Your relationship will grow stronger and you will become much closer if you do. Love is built on a foundation of trust, and trust makes you fall deeper in love! Trust is the key to a great, long lasting relationship.

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